Sexual Archetype Quiz
You already know what you like.
You already know what you like.
You just don't have the language for it yet.
The Sexual Archetype Quiz reveals your unique pleasure profile and gives you and your partner the words to finally take your sex life to the next level.
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The Radiant
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The Passionate
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The Adventurer
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The Wild
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The Radiant
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The Passionate
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The Adventurer
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The Wild
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Before you take the quiz
Try this first.
Most people don't have a desire problem. They have a self-knowledge problem.
Think about the last time you felt genuinely turned on. Not performing, not going through the motions. Actually present. What was different about that moment?
Chances are, it wasn't random. Your desire has a shape. A consistent, recognizable pattern that shows you what lights you up, what shuts you down, and what you need to fully open. Whether that's deep emotional presence, bold adventure, or something you've never quite had words for.
Most people have never been given language for any of it. That's exactly what this quiz does.
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What you'll discover
Your archetype reveals
Your archetype reveals
everything you've never
had words for.
Your Sexual Archetype
Your result, what it means, and how it shows up in your desire, your body, and your relationships.
Your archetype's strengths and challenges
What comes naturally to you, and what gets in your way when it comes to intimacy.
A curated playlist for your archetype
Music chosen specifically for how you experience desire and what helps you drop in.
Your personalized playbook
A 15+ page deep dive into your archetype with communication scripts, fantasy scenarios, and practices built for how you're wired.
1:1 Archetype Consult with Sarah
A personal session to look at your archetype in the context of your actual relationship and build a roadmap to the best sex life you've ever had.
The language to finally ask for what you need
Without awkwardness, shame, or hoping your partner just figures it out.
The Four Archetypes
Four archetypes.
Four archetypes.
One that's yours.
Everything changes when you know it.
Which one sounds like you?
The Archetype
The Radiant
The Archetype
The Passionate
The Archetype
The Adventurer
The Archetype
The Wild
Only the quiz can tell you which one you are. Most people are surprised by their result!
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Go Deeper
Already know your archetype?
Already know your archetype?
Get your personalized playbook.
Each playbook is a 15+ page deep dive into your archetype with communication scripts, fantasy scenarios, and practices built specifically for how you experience desire.
The Radiant
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The Passionate
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The Adventurer
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The Wild
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Curious to know which Archetype you are? Take the free quiz first.
Real people. Real results.
Before
"I thought something was wrong with me. I couldn't explain why I needed so much emotional build-up before I could relax into intimacy. My partner thought I wasn't attracted to them. We were both frustrated and confused."
After"Now we have language for it. They know how to approach me. I know how to ask for what I need. It changed everything."
"When I was taking the quiz I didn't feel like it really saw me or understood me, but I did the best I could to answer. Then when I read the results I felt like you had crawled into my brain and understood me in a way I have not been able to communicate with any of my Sexual partners. I was honestly shocked at how accurate this was and how it gave me words to share with my wife to truly understand me in a whole new way."
"I always thought something was wrong with me. I wanted to want sex, but I kept shutting down at the worst moments and I couldn't explain why. My partner wasn't doing anything wrong. I just couldn't get there. When I got my Radiant result, it was the first time I understood that I'm not broken. I need emotional safety before my body will open. I need presence, not just touch. Reading that felt like someone finally saw me in a way I hadn't been able to see myself. I sent it to my partner that night and we talked for two hours."
Why we built this
This started as a conversation between us.
Brad and Sarah have been together for over 20 years. They're partners, parents, and they've spent years studying the science and practice of intimate connection.
They built the Sexual Archetype Quiz because they kept having the same conversation with the individuals and couples they worked with: "We love each other. We just can't seem to get on the same page."
The quiz isn't a gimmick. It's the beginning of a language. One that makes those conversations possible. Over 12,000 individuals have taken it. Most say it described them better than anything they'd ever read about themselves.
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Common questions
A few things people always ask
How long does it take?
Set aside 15 to 20 minutes and give yourself the space to actually sit with each question. The more honest you are, the more accurate your result. This isn't a speed test. It's a self-discovery tool.
Is it really free?
Yes. The Sexual Archetype Quiz is completely free. After you see your results, there's an optional personalized playbook if you want to go deeper, but the quiz costs nothing.
Is it private?
Your answers are confidential. We use your email to send your results and that's it. We will never share your information. If you book a 1:1 Archetype Consult with Sarah, she can review your responses ahead of your session to make your coaching call even more personal and specific to you.
Should my partner take it too?
Yes, and separately. Most individuals find it more revealing when they each take it on their own first. Then compare. The conversation that follows is usually the most honest one you've had in years.
What happens after I finish?
You'll get your archetype result immediately. Your type, what it means, and how it shows up in your relationship. You'll also have the option to unlock your full personalized playbook for a deeper dive.
Is this a kink archetype test?
The Sexual Archetype Quiz goes beyond kink. It maps the full spectrum of how you experience desire, including emotional needs, physical preferences, and psychological patterns. Whether you identify with kink or not, there's an archetype that describes exactly how you're wired.
Your archetype is waiting
Stop guessing what you or your partner actually needs.
12,000+ individuals have already discovered theirs. The quiz is free, takes about 15 minutes, and most people say it described them better than anything they've ever read about themselves.
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