Suddenly, your time, energy, and attention are pulled in a million different directions, and intimacy can slide way down the priority list.

You don’t need to be everything to your partner. That’s not love; that’s a setup for burnout.

You don’t want just any connection; you want the kind where eye contact makes your body buzz and slow touch sends waves through your whole system.

Esther Perel talks about how we used to rely on entire communities to meet our needs. But modern culture has condensed all those roles into one person: your partner.

While some of our friends and family know bits and pieces, I’ve never shared the full story of how we went from preschool playmates to partners building a life together.

Your archetype is a snapshot, not a fixed identity. Embracing how it shifts over time keeps intimacy dynamic and alive.

This is where the Modern Method comes into play; providing a framework for understanding yourself beyond the quiz results.

Miscommunication is one of the most common struggles in relationships. The good news? It doesn’t have to stay this way.

Let me share something that has shifted my perspective—and might shift yours too…